Wickid Space

So it has yet again been waaaaaaaaayyyyy too long since I have posted something on my website.  There has been a lot going on and well I think it is now currently safe to put it all on here again.  I have been through a lot since the last time I actually did a post on here. I’m hoping that I can get it all on here and if I miss anything, I am sure that my wife will help me add it on here.

In late January of this year, my wife and I moved back into base housing into a nice four bedroom house. The house is very nice and we have been here ever since. Things have been a little easier money wise and we have enjoyed the solidarity that we have had from most people. Yes, we still have visitors every once in a while but at least we know that they are coming and we usually are the ones that invite the people over.

I made E-5(Second Class Petty Officer) in May right after we got back from patrol. It was a nice surprise that made me very happy. I’ve been out to sea since we have moved and it was a pretty hard patrol. It lasted a lot longer than what it should have and it wasn’t the easiest of patrols. It was really hard to leave my wife pregnant during those months with two children but we were able to get through it. I re-enlisted on June 14th for 6 years and it was a very nice day and something that took a lot of thinking to actually do. We went out to “Whaling Days” here in Silverdale. It’s a big fair that they have here with rides and shops and other neat things like that. For the final two weeks of July, my wife spent all of her time on bed rest, strict bed rest. I made sure she didn’t do much of anything except watch t.v. and sleep.

On August 3rd, my newest child, Damen James Bisbee, was born at 2137 (937 p.m.) at the Naval Hospital Bremerton. He was 8lbs. 9oz. when he was born and he is one very healthy baby.I am a very happy daddy and there are pictures all over my Facebook  if you want to see him.

Also, I got a nice bit of good news that kind of made my month and my year. So, I have orders to the USS Wyoming Gold out of King’s Bay, Georgia and I will be leaving the Washington state area sometime in October. I am so excited to be getting out of this state and back over to familiar stomping grounds. It is also closer to my family so that they can come see their grandkids. I know that everyone is very excited to meet my wife and see the kids and then to have me back home. Not really in that order but you know what I mean.

I do believe that is everything that has happened in the last couple months of major importance. Oh, one last thing, I almost forgot. So the chick I was dating around this time last year was pregnant and didn’t tell me about it. She had her baby in November or December of last year and decided that she was going to come after me for child support. So I went and did a paternity test for this child that she claimed was mine. I told her for months that her child wasn’t mine. She insisted that he was and kept calling my wife a “homewrecking slut” and my wife politely told her that her child wasn’t mine and we were going to prove her wrong. We got the results back last week and it turns out that we were right and I AM NOT the father of her child and now she looks like the “homewrecking slut” because she swore up and down that I was the only one she slept with. Looks like she is now the butt end of every whore joke that I am going to have in my entire life.
Later Daze

Wickid

So I just realized that it has been over two months since I last put up an entry and a lot of things have happened since I have been back from sea. Just to recap: I got back from sea on 30Sep and have been very busy these last three months.

I got remarried on 20Nov to the beautiful Beverly Marie Chapman. The happiest day of my life. I had the whole family there. Well, most of her family and none of mine. They were there in spirit though because we had who we could on the  phone and listening. It made me feel better to know that they were “there” and I know that it made them happy. We found out a week later that she was pregnant. The best news I have heard in forever. So I am going to be a daddy in the summertime and we have our first doctors appointment on Wednesday. I am assuming that she is getting the full workup and I plan on being there for a while. I got some expectant father books for Christmas, so I am hoping they will help me through these next seven months at least.

Good news is this though, I will be present for the birth of my child and I am very excited for that. I will get ten days off to help her out and get us back into a routine before I got out to sea for the second time next year. I am leaving again sometime in March and I’ll be back in May with a short in-port stint in June through July and I will be going back out again sometime in August. Not really the best schedule but hey this is what I do. I am re-enlisting in the time because if I don’t June 15th is my final day and I have a new baby and two others to support so I need to stay in for them. I also think my mom and dad are going to be up here for the birth of their first grandbaby. I want my uncles to be up here too but I don’t know if they will though. I’m trying to get everyone from my side of the family up here so that they can experience some fun up here in Washington. I am planning on fighting for orders to King’s Bay Georgia for a shore duty and possibly another sea duty if I can make 2nd by the end of my next 3 years.

Enclosed in this post are some wedding pictures of us and friends and family.

Later Daze

Wickid

Hey everyone!! Just wanted to let you all know that I am back in town and back from sea. I hope you all missed me and wish me the best of luck back here on land. I’ll be gone for about another day or so because I’m in a private hotel room.  So I will catch you all later.

Later Daze

Wickid

I have spent the last couple days in deep thought and a small bout of depression. I am about to go underway yet again and it just isn’t as easy as it was a year or two ago. When my first wife left me, going underway was easy and every time was a new experience. This one is a lot harder knowing that there is a one year old child involved in my life. Eli is just a little boy but I was gone for 2 straight days and he would not let me go when I got home from work today. From what Bevvy has said, he spent the last 2 days saying, “da-da” like he was asking where I was. It was sweet to know that he misses me and I sit here now with a beer in my hand and wonder what exactly goes through his mind when I am not there at night to play with him. I know it easy for Bevvy either but this is a new “adventure” so to speak for her. She told me last night that she promises not to cry when I leave but I know for a fact when I walk out of my front door tomorrow and leave her here for two months without me that she will break down and cry. I know this for a fact even though she tries to hide it. Ironically, she is my better half. She is the strong, silent type that will not really say what is on her mind and I am the loud, obnoxious one that will speak my mind no matter what it is. Most of you know this fact already and yeah you are probably thinking, ” well duh you are loud and obnoxious” and that’s okay with me.

As most of you are probably thinking and saying to yourselves, “well aren’t you worried about what she is going to do while you are gone?” and just so you know so it will set your mind at ease, is yes I still have those fears and I will always have those fears no matter how long it is that I am with someone because I just don’t know what goes on when I’m gone. I still have trust issues because of some of the choices that I have made but this one is different. I have known her for 3 years and yes that isn’t really a long time but i know her front to back and inside and out.

I’ll tell you a quick story. I went to Burger King one night to get food for me and the ex-girlfriend. I hadn’t seen Bevvy in about a year or so and when I walked in I immediately recognized her by the back of her head and her ass. Ask her about that night, she’ll tell you the same thing. It seems kinda funny to me that after about a year and a half of not seeing this woman, that one chance night of walking in to where she works and recognizing her by the back of her head and her ass tells you something. We still have our quirks and the things about us that we don’t see eye to eye on, but everybody has those with a significant other. We have looked past all of this because everyone of our friends and some of our family has seen the change in my character.

Ask anyone in my family how I am now compared to how I was in March and April. I was angry all of the time and I was happy as hell to stay at work late. Now, I want to come home early all of the time and all I want to do is spend time with her. These last couple days have been a major test of the stress level of what we can handle. I’m angry and cranky when I come home from work because  I have been there too long and I just want to come home and relax. I have fallen asleep on her so many times and she gets upset with me about it because I tell her that I want to do things that night and then I end up falling asleep. She gets mad at herself because she gets mad at me and then she feels bad. I tell her not to worry about it because the way she is feeling is natural.

I am a little better at hiding the way I feel and the way I handle my stress. Then again, I am loud and obnoxious so it makes it a lot easier for me. I can tell when she has something serious on her mind and when she isn’t feeling good or when she is upset about something. She’ll tell me she is fine but I know better. You can ask her about that too and she will tell you the same thing. She is my better half.

Well, this was supposed to be about me going underway tomorrow and feeling depressed but it seems to me that I have pretty much spilled what has been on my mind as of late. So tomorrow I leave for sea and those who know how to contact me please send me those emails that you know I love to see. I will keep in touch with as many people as I possibly can and write you as often as I can.

Later Daze

Wickid

Just another day in the life of me. Sorry it has been a while since my last post, but most of you know my job and you know how busy I get. Just wanted to pop in and say that there will be more posts coming shortly when I get the chance to. Have to go and get my surprise ready for Bevvy before she comes home from work today.

Later Daze

Wickid